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Please Help Us Help The Loveless Family

October 27th, 2009 · View Comments · Life

UPDATE 12/16 @9:32 p.m. Time for a final update about Chris and Jamie. Chris was overwhelmed and grateful for the extremely generous show of support by everyone who contributed. The money was a tremendous help in covering medical and funeral costs. I cannot thank everyone enough for their efforts in helping this family during a time of need. Your efforts have not and will not be forgotten. Please continue to keep Chris and Gavin in your thoughts. Thank you!

UPDATE 10/30 @ 10:02 a.m.: Chris and Jamie’s local news organization has run a story about her situation, with more details. You can find it online here at The Tennessean website.

UPDATE 10/29 @ 3:13 p.m.: I just received terrible news that despite best efforts and Jamie’s constant fighting to survive, it was not enough. She has passed away. Thank you everyone for all your prayers, donations and kind wishes. I ask you to continue to spread the word and donate if possible, her family needs help now more than ever.

I’ve been active in social media and writing on this blog  for some time now and have never asked for something like this. I can only hope that I’ve earned enough trust and credibility to be able to ask for something back from you. You see, a terrible has happened to someone I know, and she needs all the help we can muster. Meet Jamie Loveless

Loveless Family

Above is a picture of Jamie and her family. Husband Chris and 9 month old son Gavin. They were recently on vacation as a family in Florida, when Jamie became sick with respiratory problems. Jamie was taken the the emergency room, and eventually diagnosed with a severe case of H1N1 flu (aka swine flu). She was initially given a 10-15% chance of survival during her first night at the hospital. Her lungs filled with fluid, and she was put on a ventilator. Incredibly, she made it through the night. Now, her condition has improved slightly, and her probability of survival has increased but she’s far from recovering. She’s still experiencing multiple organ failures, relying on a ventilator to breathe, and is sedated. She needs a miracle to survive, and her family needs other support to help them get through this terrible ordeal.

Chris and Jamie live in Nashville, TN, and will be forced to stay in Florida for several weeks at the very least. This means they are unable to work, and face rising medical bills, lodging, food and transportation expenses.

I know this is one of the worst times to ask for help, given the economic and employment challenges we face. However, many people that know Jamie are doing what they can to help. Some have provided donations for expenses, others free lodging and other assistance. That’s what I’m asking.  Please help if you can. We’ve committed to giving, diverting funds from other places. I’m asking if you could think about doing the same. Or at the very least, helping get the word out about this. We are looking to raise 5k for Jamie and her family. Enough so that her family doesn’t have to worry about how to pay for the medical care that is crucial to saving Jamie’s life.

Please consider helping in one or more of the following ways:

1. Giving whatever you can by donating at this Chipin link (“Chip in” uses Pay Pal and it’s very easy to donate and it’s secure)
2. Spread the word. Please, please blog this, Facebook share this, tweet this, re-tweet this.
3. Help find a donor (maybe a generous company or individual)

I don’t have anything to offer back other. Zero. Zilch. Not a top donor list or fancy recognition. All I can offer is the satisfaction of knowing you helped make a difference to someone not currently able to help themselves. I’ve seen the incredible power of “community” at work before in times of need, like when David Armano put out the call to help Daniela. I’m simply hoping the community has a little bit more left to give to, literally, a life and death situation.

Respectfully,

Ken Burbary and friends of Jamie & Chris Loveless

PS, if you don’t feel comfortable using Pay Pal, please e-mail us here and we’ll figure it out. And thank you.

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  • I read your profile today and it was so good to me.i feel you are the only one missing in my entire life so i decided to stop on and let you know that i am interested to be a friend first.When the fight begins within himself, a man's worth something
  • nice story, thx a lot, I just discovered English written blogs, to improve my English.
  • Barbra and Joel Friedman
    Hi, we are the Friedman Family from Woodland Hills, CA. We just sold the house in Nolansville, TN to Jamie and her husband -- we had never met Jamie and Chris in person but had dealt with them through realtors. We are devastated at the news of her passing...what a tragedy! But knowing Serena the realtor we realize just how kind and wonderful the people of the new neighborhood are and how they have come together to help Chris and the baby. Everyone we've ever worked with there -- Serena, Carole and many others -- are just the most pleasant and lovely people. We know that you will take tremendous care of this good man and his sweet baby. It's just the shattering of The American Dream. We wish you all condolences and the very best in getting through this very difficult time.
  • rosenbergs
    Our deepest condolences.
  • Rosenbergs
    Our deepest condolences.
  • Steven Adams
    Ken: I just read your update. You have my condolences.
  • Steven Adams
    Ken: I don't know you or the Loveless family, but I must say that this is a great thing that you're doing. I got the info from a friend. Best of luck to Jamie.
  • Steven Adams
    Ken: I don't know you or the Loveless family, but I must say that this is a great thing that you're doing. I got the info from a friend. Best of luck to Jamie.
  • My heart goes out to friends and family. RIP.
  • Lori Laurent Smith
    My prayers and sympathy extend to the Loveless family. Truly heartbreaking. Can't even begin to imagine losing a spouse in the prime of life so suddenly. So tragically. Thank you Ken for reaching out to all of us with a simple request to help.
  • Sad to hear the news about Jamie, Ken. We'll keep her and her family in our thoughts and prayers...
  • My condolences to the Loveless family - what a tragic loss!
  • Ken, I'm very sorry to hear that. Your efforts are still to be commended, and hopefully the family can use the funds raised for funeral expenses and other purposes as they struggle through this terrible and difficult time.

    No family should have to go through this; thanks to you and the support of your community, they'll be spared just a little bit of the associated pain and difficulty.
  • I am beyond sad to hear of this tremendous loss.
  • Unreal................http://bit.ly/2IEFmm...................#jamieloveless :( Our hearts go out to her family.
  • Ken,

    So sorry. My thoughts go out to Chris and his family. I'm sure that you efforts brought much comfort to the Loveless family.
  • I am beyond saddened to see this update. UGH. :-(
  • My thoughts and prayers go out to this family. I can't even imagine what her husband and son are going through right now. As a resident of Florida I would love to offer any local assistance that I can. What area of Florida are they in?
  • MF
    Crushing sad.
  • jimcastro
    We are praying for you!
  • Ken,
    Thank you for sharing this story and showing your love and compassion for a family in need. I hope you do realize that you have given back, more than rewards and accolades can provide. You have given hope to all people who hear about this demonstration of love and generosity from a community of strangers.
  • I've many friends and family in Florida. I'd like to network amongst them and see what local support I can raise. Is there a way to get in touch with the family?

    - Michele
    @MicheleKersey
    mkersey@mindspring.com
  • Well done, Ken! Is there a status update on Jamie?
  • Thank you so much for doing this. I look forward to more updates. Jamie and Chris and Gavin will be in my thoughts.
  • Hi Ken,
    Thank you for the amazing work you have done here. Please send my best wishes to Jamie on her way to a full recovery.
    Thanks
  • Prayers for the Loveless family.
  • This is so heartwarming! :) You say you have nothing to offer, but seeing everyone come together to help a stranger like this really renews my faith in humanity (and believe me, it's been a little low lately!) So thank you.
  • Thank you so much for doing this. It makes me angry that it even has to be done. Looking at that mommy and her little baby made me wish I could give SO much more. I hope she is better soon. Much love to you and their whole family.
  • Very happy to contribute and please don't worry for one second about "not having anything" to reciprocate. It means a lot to me and I know to others that we can help.
  • Ken,

    Thanks for sharing this story. I've done what I can to contribute and pass the word. Let's hope people don't stop at $5k. We all know it's going to take more than that.

    Keep us posted.
    Kyle
  • PpcJen
    Amazing. Wow. That is some scary stuff.
    Thanks for posting and organizing this effort.
  • Ken, thanks for reminding me to take a moment and focus on self LESS and others more. My heart and prayers go out to Jamie, Chris and little Gavin. Donation made and tweeted.
  • I want to help. I am sending prayers. Is there any "more reputable source" on this story I can direct my husband to so he can feel secure this is legit? I don't mean any disrespect. He is very (rightfully, in many ways) cautious and wants to know more about the situation before sending funds.
  • Selene - Understandable. Here is a link to a news article that provides more detail about Jamie's situation. Sadly, I can assure you that it IS legit!

    http://www.tennessean.com/article/20091030/NEWS...
  • nicoleallen
    http://thelovelessfamily.weebly.com/

    This is another website dedicated to Jamie and her family. They are posting updates as frequently as possible. I went to high school with Jamie and her husband Chris. I can assure you. This is absolutely legit!
  • CatherineVentura
    So glad about the good news and that you're going to reach your goal! Let us know if it's enough.
  • praying 4 u guys, may God heal Jamie and that you get all the money that you need to pay the medical bills
  • Made a donation and tweeted my listed. Thanks Ken for your support of Jamie. And thanks to @chrisbrogan for supporting your cause.
  • I sent my donation a few minutes ago and am delighted to have been able to help in that regard.

    My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
  • Ironic... a name like "Loveless", yet I'm seeing all kinds of love here. This is awesome. Donation made, and all my best to her and her family.
  • Sending my best. I'm not a religious dude, but if I was...I'd be sending my prayers.

    Donation made.

    DJ Waldow
    Director of Community, Blue Sky Factory
    @djwaldow
  • Ken - as I said in my ChipIn comment, good for you for being a wonderful friend to the Loveless family in their time of need. Good luck with this.
  • Thanks for bringing this to our attention Ken - I hope my contribution helps...
  • And thanks to Chris Brogan for bring this to my attention...
  • Ed
    Ken, good on you for standing up for this family.
    Every blessing, to all involved :)
  • Best wishes to the Loveless family. Our thoughts are with you.
  • Thanks to Dave Delaney for sharing this with us. Jamie, I hope you get to come home soon!
  • I'm thinking about the Loveless family. I hope Jamie is healthy and their family happy again soon.

    Thanks for sharing this.
  • Would be happy to donate any proceeds from my Giving Site. Anyone who is interested needs to order directly from the link on the site below and email me with an order confirmation number. I will forward donation. Plus will keep it going with any re-orders. Spread the word so that people can help when they buy things that they already buy for their home or family.

    http://www.GiveToYourCause.com
  • Best of luck with your efforts, Ken. Dave Armano's plea to help Daniela is one of the most amazing stories I've ever heard about social media and the kindness of people. Great to see others taking steps to help each other. We've got your back.
  • My thoughts and prayers go out to Jamie and her family.
  • Hi

    I was all ready to make a contribution, but your paypal account doesn't accept credit card payments, it tried to force me to open a paypal account and pay from there.

    While I am happy to help, I do not need or want a paypal account. If you could upgrade your paypal account from personal to merchant - this is a free upgrade if I remember correctly - you will be able to accept genuine credit card payments.
  • Andreas, thanks for pointing that out. I had no idea that you could upgrade for free. I just upgraded to a premier account so it should work now. .
  • Ken, I'm really happy to see this is already over $2K. Best of wishes for Jamie and her family. Please keep us updated on how she's doing.

    And regarding your comment about having nothing to give back - dude, we're getting something HUGE back. A human connection, a way to reach out to someone and provide some tender mercies in a time of deep fear. Nothing tops that.
  • Ken, you are giving back!! This isn't about 'zilch,' just like Albert said. If we can't tap into our networks once in a while for something that IS important (other than branding, marketing, networking, etc.), what's the point at the end of the day?

    My heart goes out to the Loveless family while they make it through this ordeal. And you have the ability to help them through all of your friends, colleagues and networks. That's what matters most. :)

    Thanks for bringing this to our attention Ken, it's important.
  • Thank you for the kind words and support Beth. I sincerely appreciate it and we won't forget it.
  • Ken, just a quick comment and I hope it's not taken in a way I don't intend, nonetheless I have to state it here because you raise the issue "I don't have anything to offer back other. Zero, Zilch. Not top donor list or fancy recognition."

    That's OK, in fact even better. (not a lecture folks just a comment) This whole social thing in relation to helping should be its own reward. Sure it can easily be turned into some self-aggrandizing contest, the church basket passed around and someone drops a $50 spot in type thing.

    At times people can give, others they can't, and when the latter happens they shouldn't be thrown into the guilty bin of fund raising campaigns.

    Your actions come from the heart and I'm hoping that's the place where most of socialness on the web lies. I'm not naive about human nature and realize all people at some point are motivated by "what's in it for me." However, I have equal hope that these acts of humanity show what is possible when we forget about "where we rank" and think about "how can I help"
  • Well said Albert, and I couldn't agree more. It's important to remember the amazing things that are possible when we set those things aside. I'm been reminded of it all night as incredible responses of support for Jamie come in.
  • I'd love to help financially, but we're in our own recently unemployed/suddenly struck down with major infection & surgery/months of IV meds & therapy crisis here. Instead, I'll be sending tons of positive thoughts for the Loveless family.
  • Help comes in many forms, and positive thoughts are much needed too. Thank you Sonya
  • Would love to help but $ for prescription drugs r not e answer. Jamie shld turn to oxygen therapy that saved a cancer patient from the H1N1 Swine flu. Better spend your money on real foods for real cells for the human body!
  • sherriprock
    Your an Idiot
  • Thoughts go out to Jamie and her family. You're a good man for your generous act, Ken.
  • Thank you everyone for your kind comments, wishes and donations. It's incredibly overwhelming and generous of you. I'm extremely fortunate to be connected to each and every one of you, truly.
  • #jamieloveless 1000 people: skip your starbucks and give 5 bucks. http://bit.ly/2NazGF
  • Ken:

    The good you do in the world comes back to you.

    Best wishes to Jamie and her family.

    David Wiggs
  • You're doing a great think Ken. I wish the Loveless Family all the best.
  • RT @adamcohen If you read 1 post tonight, see this from @kenburbary re: a friend in need. http://bit.ly/2NazGF U can help too.
  • Best of luck to the Loveless family getting through this ordeal. Help spread the word.
  • Thoughts are with the Loveless family, every bit counts.
  • igster101
    I wish I could help. I hope she gets better soon.
  • Good luck with this Ken - incredible way to show your love for a family that obviously mean a lot to you. Best wishes to Jamie in her battle back to (hopefully) full health.
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